First-time sexting isn’t exactly easy for everyone, though. Putting your desires down in writing can feel awkward. Not to mention, it’s also risky. “Texts are forever,” says Kimberly Smith, owner of StripXpertease, a dance company in New York and Los Angeles that offers dirty talk classes. So remember to only send sexts to a partner you trust and to be hyper aware of who you’re actually texting (we’re pretty sure your mom doesn’t want to read your naughty messages).